By Lindsey Grant
By Lindsey Grant
By Lindsey Grant
In 2005, Stephen Hayes* lost custody of his child to the Georgia foster care system. It happened because of Hayes’ addiction to opioids. What began as a prescription medication to ease the pain of an on-the-job back injury, developed into a near insatiable heroin addiction.
The First Dose
After being prescribed Hydrocodone, Hayes did feel relief for his injury, but soon after he recognized his dependence on the drug. “I struggled with alcohol addiction in high school and part of my early 20s. I knew what addiction felt like, but my doctor never told me the risk I was taking when he prescribed them.” Hayes says the medicine came with quite a few refills but eventually his back got better and the refills ended.
From Prescription Drugs to Heroin
For a few days after Hayes ran out of the last bottle, he thought he could get through the withdrawal and everything would be fine. Hayes’ wife and the mother to his son Mitchell* had been out of the picture for a while, so he knew he needed to be there for his son.
“I tried to ignore the pain. I knew was in my head since my back injury had completely healed, but this was different from drying out when I was trying to quit drinking. So, I went and found the first dealer selling heroin, and that’s when the switch flipped.” Hayes held together the façade that everything was okay at home for three months, but eventually things fell apart when his addiction became worse. He relied on his mother, Mary* to watch his child while he was high. His mother, she became suspicious of her son’s behavior. After questioning Hayes’ son, Mitchell, she realized he was struggling with an opioid addiction.
Losing His Son
Mary, elderly and struggling with her own health problems, knew she could not care for Mitchell full time and could not keep her son’s secret. “It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done, calling DFACS on my own son. But I just couldn’t do it all on my own. “she says. Within days, young Mitchell was taken in by the Whitfield County Department of Family and Children’s Services and placed in a foster home.
Hayes says that for a while this made him even more reliant on heroin as he felt he had nothing left to live for. “For a while, every time I woke up I was surprised I hadn’t died during a binge or in my sleep, that’s how bad it was. I wasn’t even showing up to my weekly visits with Mitchell, I felt like I didn’t deserve to see him,” says Hayes.
The Turning Point
At the end of 2006, the state moved to terminate Hayes’ parental rights and allow Mitchell to be put up for adoption. Hayes had not tried to work his case plan, had failed all mandatory drug tests and had even been arrested for possession twice his son was placed in the system. “That’s when I woke up,” he says. “I realized my son was going to grow up and see someone else as his dad. It was hard, but it was what I needed to start trying to change.”
Clean
Hayes was not able to get over his addiction before his parental rights were terminated despite his best efforts. He would get clean only to fall back into his old habits. He does live a sober life now and has started his own construction business. The family who adopted his son allows Hayes to see him every other weekend. While this ending was not perfect, it is much better than many opiate addicts ever experience.
The National Health Crisis
Each year, there are 30,000 opioid-related deaths in the United States, according to The Oregonian. Fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters and sons and daughters are dying every day because of these drugs. If you or a loved one suffer from a narcotics addiction, call the Narcotic Recovery Hotline at 1-888-667-0854 and get help today.
*Names have been changed.
By Lindsey Grant
Alyssa Hendrix, a journalism student at Georgia State University (GSU) recently had the opportunity to go on a private CNN tour led by CNN digital news editor Monte Plott. While there, she was able to see the hustle and bustle of the CNN Newsroom up close and personal.
Hendrix also gained insight into how important getting accurate and up-to-date news is for every journalist. Just one misstep makes it difficult to gain back an audience’s trust. “The only thing we (journalists) have going for us is credibility,” says Plott. “If we lose that — if get things wrong, doesn’t matter why or how we got them wrong, just that we screwed up — then we’re out of business.”
CNN is is well known and respected across the globe and Hendrix expressed her awe over being able to visit the world headquarters. “For many journalists, working for CNN is the ultimate goal – and to go there and see it makes me feel like it could be within my grasp,” says Hendrix.
Danielle Grant studies Journalism and Political Science at Georgia State University (GSU). She enjoys the public relations aspect of journalism most, and this reflects in her current occupation as a client coordinator and social media manager at Jamison Shaw Hairdressers.
At Southeast Whitfield High School, she was a member of student government and a writer for the school newspaper, the Southeast Sentinel. Upon graduating as a Whitfield County Scholar, she enrolled at GSU to pursue her career in public relations.
Born in the small town of Dalton in North Georgia, Grant took an early interest in the written word. Grant volunteers regularly at the Humane Society of Northwest Georgia. Before moving to Atlanta, she also frequently volunteered at City of Refuge, a homeless shelter organized by Antioch Baptist Church. At Georgia State, she is a member of Active Minds, educating others about the prevalence of mental illness.
Danielle’s career goal is to be a public relations manager for politicians and work on campaigns across the United States. Following graduation, she plans to intern for political campaign leading up to the 2020 election.. She wants to prove herself as an invaluable member of the campaign team to reach her ultimate goal.