family relations

My family is great when it comes to caring. I have two groups of children. There are the younger kids and the grown ups. The adult children are living by themselves, and they find it difficult to stay with us because  my wife and will  want to guard them in their decision making. Because they are not yet married, I have tried to convince them to stay with daddy and mom to get prepared finally and even mature enough before going out. But they do not want to listen to us. But I don’t take it against them. I only pray and wish them the best in life.